import java.io.File;
import javax.xml.parsers.DocumentBuilder;
import javax.xml.parsers.DocumentBuilderFactory;
import org.w3c.dom.Document;
import org.w3c.dom.NodeList;
public class Main {
public static void main(String[] args) throws Exception {
DocumentBuilderFactory dbf = DocumentBuilderFactory.newInstance();
DocumentBuilder db = dbf.newDocumentBuilder();
Document document = db.parse(new File("yourFile.xml"));
NodeList nodeList = document.getElementsByTagName("message");
for (int x = 0, size = nodeList.getLength(); x < size; x++) {
System.out.println(nodeList.item(x).getAttributes().getNamedItem("to")
.getNodeValue());
}
}
}